--- title: "Ecclesiastes" author: "Pastor Jeff Wickwire" url: "https://books.hardwired.org/18/ecclesiastes" --- Family Devotion 1: Understanding Life's Meaning Theme: Life's Meaning with God Activity Time: Dinner Time Scripture: Ecclesiastes 1:2 - "Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity." Activity: Discussion Starter: Begin by asking, "What do you think makes life meaningful?" Allow each child to share their thoughts. Illustration: Use a balloon to demonstrate. Blow it up and let it go without tying it. Explain how life without God can feel like the balloon—flying around without direction and eventually deflating. Read Scripture: Read Ecclesiastes 1:2 together. Explain that Solomon, a very wise man, found that life without God felt empty. Discussion: Ask, "How can knowing God give our lives meaning?" Encourage kids to think about how God gives us purpose and direction. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help each family member find meaning and purpose in Him. Parenting Tip: Encourage open-ended questions to allow kids to express their thoughts freely. Affirm their ideas and gently guide them towards understanding God's role in giving life meaning. Family Devotion 2: The Cycles of Life Theme: Recognizing God's Hand in Life's Cycles Activity Time: During a Walk or Drive Scripture: Ecclesiastes 1:5-7 - Discuss the cycles of the sun, wind, and rivers. Activity: Observation: As you walk or drive, point out the sun, wind, or any water bodies. Discuss how these are part of God's creation and follow a cycle. Read Scripture: Share Ecclesiastes 1:5-7. Explain how Solomon noticed these cycles and felt they were meaningless without God. Discussion: Ask, "How do you see God in the world around us?" Encourage kids to share how they see God's hand in nature and daily life. Reflection: Talk about how God is constant and faithful, just like the cycles in nature. Prayer: Thank God for His creation and ask Him to help you see His hand in everyday life. Parenting Tip: Use everyday experiences to point out God's presence. Encourage curiosity and wonder about God's creation. Family Devotion 3: The Search for Wisdom Theme: True Wisdom Comes from God Activity Time: Bedtime Scripture: Ecclesiastes 1:16-18 - Solomon's pursuit of wisdom. Activity: Story Time: Share a simple story about Solomon asking God for wisdom (1 Kings 3:5-14). Read Scripture: Read Ecclesiastes 1:16-18. Explain how Solomon learned that wisdom without God leads to sadness. Discussion: Ask, "What is wisdom?" and "How can we get wisdom from God?" Discuss how reading the Bible and praying can help us gain wisdom. Application: Encourage kids to think of one wise choice they can make tomorrow. Prayer: Pray for God's wisdom in daily decisions. Parenting Tip: Encourage children to ask God for wisdom in their prayers. Reinforce that wisdom is not just knowledge but making good choices with God's help. Family Devotion 4: Finding Joy in God Theme: Joy in God's Presence Activity Time: Breakfast Scripture: Psalm 16:11 - "You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy." Activity: Joyful Start: Begin with a fun song or a joyful activity like a quick dance. Read Scripture: Share Psalm 16:11. Explain how being with God brings true joy. Discussion: Ask, "What makes you happy?" and "How can God bring us joy?" Discuss how God's presence can make us happy even when things are tough. Activity: Each person shares one thing they are thankful for today. Prayer: Thank God for His presence and the joy He brings. Parenting Tip: Model joy and gratitude. Encourage kids to see God's blessings in everyday moments. Family Devotion 5: Living with Purpose Theme: Living for God's Glory Activity Time: After School or Evening Scripture: Colossians 3:23 - "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men." Activity: Chore Time: As you do chores together, discuss how we can do everything for God's glory. Read Scripture: Share Colossians 3:23. Explain how we can do our best in everything because it honors God. Discussion: Ask, "How can we do our chores or schoolwork for God?" Encourage practical ideas. Application: Choose one task to do with extra effort for God. Prayer: Ask God to help you work with a joyful heart and for His glory. Parenting Tip: Encourage kids to see everyday tasks as opportunities to serve God. Praise their efforts and remind them of God's delight in their work. Family Devotion 1: Trusting God with Our Plans Theme: Surrendering our dreams and plans to GodSuggested Time: Dinner timeActivity: "Dreams in a Jar" Instructions: Discussion Starter: Begin by asking each family member to share one dream or plan they have for the future. It could be something they want to do, a place they want to visit, or a skill they want to learn. Bible Verse: Read Proverbs 3:5-6 together: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Activity: Provide each family member with a small piece of paper and a pen. Ask them to write down their dream or plan and place it in a jar labeled "God's Hands." Explain that this symbolizes trusting God with our dreams and plans. Prayer: Close with a prayer, asking God to guide and bless each family member's dreams and plans according to His will. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children by affirming their dreams and reminding them that God has a special plan for each of them. Family Devotion 2: The Power of Giving Theme: Generosity and givingSuggested Time: During a family chore timeActivity: "Teaspoon or Slurpee Cup?" Instructions: Discussion Starter: While doing chores, talk about the concept of giving. Ask, "What does it mean to give generously?" Bible Verse: Read Luke 6:38 together: "Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." Activity: Use a teaspoon and a large cup (like a Slurpee cup) to illustrate the concept of giving. Ask, "Would you rather receive a teaspoon or a Slurpee cup full of blessings?" Discuss how God blesses us when we give generously. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help each family member be generous and to bless others through their giving. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to think of ways they can give, whether it's sharing toys, helping a friend, or donating to a cause. Family Devotion 3: Finding Joy in Worship Theme: Joy in worship and God's presenceSuggested Time: Before bedtimeActivity: "Joyful Noise" Instructions: Discussion Starter: Ask, "What makes you happy? How do you feel when you sing or listen to music?" Bible Verse: Read Psalm 100:1-2 together: "Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth. Worship the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful songs." Activity: Have a mini worship session. Let each child pick a favorite worship song to sing or play. Encourage them to express their joy through singing, dancing, or playing an instrument. Prayer: End with a prayer, thanking God for the joy of worship and His presence in your lives. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to find joy in worship and remind them that worship is a way to connect with God. Family Devotion 4: The Importance of Community Theme: Serving and blessing othersSuggested Time: During a family mealActivity: "Blessing Cards" Instructions: Discussion Starter: Talk about the importance of community and how we can bless others. Ask, "Who is someone you know that could use a blessing?" Bible Verse: Read Hebrews 10:24-25 together: "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another." Activity: Provide each family member with a blank card. Ask them to write a note of encouragement or blessing to someone they know. Plan to deliver these cards during the week. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to use your family to bless and encourage others. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to think of ways they can be a blessing to others in their community. Family Devotion 5: God's Love for Us Theme: Understanding God's loveSuggested Time: During a family walk or outdoor timeActivity: "Nature's Love" Instructions: Discussion Starter: While walking, ask, "What are some things in nature that remind you of God's love?" Bible Verse: Read Romans 8:38-39 together: "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Activity: As you walk, point out things in nature that remind you of God's love (e.g., the sun, trees, flowers). Discuss how these things show God's care and creativity. Prayer: Conclude with a prayer, thanking God for His unending love and asking Him to help your family feel His love every day. Parenting Tip: Use this time to reinforce the idea that God's love is constant and surrounds us in many ways. Family Devotion 1: "Seasons of Life" Theme: Understanding the seasons of life and God's timing. Suggested Time: Dinner time Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 - "To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven." Activity: Discussion Starter: Begin by asking, "What is your favorite season of the year and why?" Allow each family member to share. Read the Scripture: Read Ecclesiastes 3:1 together. Discussion: Talk about how just like the seasons of the year, our lives have different seasons. Some are happy, some are challenging, but God is with us in every season. Reflection Question: Ask, "What season do you think you are in right now? How can we trust God in this season?" Parenting Tip: Encourage each child to share without interruption. Affirm their feelings and remind them that God has a purpose for every season. Family Devotion 2: "Never Alone" Theme: God's presence in our lives. Suggested Time: Bedtime Scripture: Matthew 28:20b - "And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age." Activity: Discussion Starter: Ask, "Have you ever felt alone? What was that like?" Read the Scripture: Read Matthew 28:20b together. Discussion: Explain that Jesus promises to be with us always, even when we feel alone. Reflection Question: Ask, "How can we remember that Jesus is with us when we feel alone?" Parenting Tip: Use this time to reassure your children of God's constant presence. Encourage them to talk to Jesus anytime they feel alone. Family Devotion 3: "God's Beautiful Creation" Theme: Recognizing God's handiwork in creation. Suggested Time: During a walk or outdoor playtime Scripture: Genesis 1:31a - "God saw all that he had made, and it was very good." Activity: Discussion Starter: While outside, ask, "What is your favorite thing about nature?" Read the Scripture: Read Genesis 1:31a together. Discussion: Talk about how God created everything beautifully and how we can see His handiwork in nature. Reflection Question: Ask, "How can we take care of God's creation?" Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to notice the small details in nature and thank God for His beautiful creation. Family Devotion 4: "Redeeming the Time" Theme: Making the most of every opportunity. Suggested Time: During a car ride Scripture: Ephesians 5:15-16 - "Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil." Activity: Discussion Starter: Ask, "What is something you did today that you are proud of?" Read the Scripture: Read Ephesians 5:15-16 together. Discussion: Discuss how we can use our time wisely and make the most of every opportunity to do good. Reflection Question: Ask, "What is one thing you can do tomorrow to make the most of your time?" Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to think of small, practical ways they can use their time wisely, like helping a friend or learning something new. Family Devotion 5: "God's Gift of Joy" Theme: Finding joy in God's gifts. Suggested Time: Breakfast Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:12-13 - "I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live. That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God." Activity: Discussion Starter: Ask, "What is something that makes you really happy?" Read the Scripture: Read Ecclesiastes 3:12-13 together. Discussion: Talk about how God wants us to find joy in the good things He gives us and to do good for others. Reflection Question: Ask, "How can we share God's joy with others today?" Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to express gratitude for the small joys in life and think of ways to spread joy to others. Family Devotion 1: Building Together Theme: Community and Growth Activity/Time: During dinner or while preparing a meal together. Scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 - "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up." Devotion: Introduction: Begin by discussing the importance of working together as a family. Ask the kids if they can think of a time when they needed help with something and someone helped them. Discussion: Explain that just like in the sermon, our church is growing and needs more space to help more people learn about Jesus. In the same way, our family can grow stronger by helping each other. Activity: As you prepare or eat dinner, have each family member share one thing they can do to help another family member this week. It could be helping with homework, chores, or just being a good listener. Prayer: Close with a prayer asking God to help your family work together and support each other, just like the church is working together to grow. Parenting Tip: Encourage each child to think of something specific and realistic they can do. Praise their willingness to help and remind them that even small acts of kindness can make a big difference. Family Devotion 2: The Power of Worship Theme: Worship and Praise Activity/Time: During a car ride or while doing a simple chore together. Scripture: Psalm 150:6 - "Let everything that has breath praise the Lord." Devotion: Introduction: Talk about how the sermon mentioned worship and how it brings joy and strength. Ask the kids what their favorite worship song is and why. Discussion: Explain that worship is a way to show God how much we love Him. It can be through singing, dancing, or even just saying thank you to God. Activity: Play a favorite worship song in the car or while doing chores. Encourage everyone to sing along or dance. Talk about how it feels to worship God together. Prayer: Thank God for the gift of music and worship. Ask Him to help your family find joy in praising Him every day. Parenting Tip: Make this a fun and light-hearted time. Encourage even the shyest singers to join in, emphasizing that God loves to hear our voices, no matter how they sound. Family Devotion 3: God's Timing Theme: Trusting God's Timing Activity/Time: Before bedtime or during a quiet moment in the evening. Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 - "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." Devotion: Introduction: Share a story about a time when you had to wait for something important. Ask the kids if they have ever had to wait for something they really wanted. Discussion: Explain that just like in the sermon, God has a perfect time for everything in our lives. Sometimes we have to wait, but God knows what's best for us. Activity: Have each child draw a picture of something they are waiting for or hoping for. Talk about how they can trust God with their hopes and dreams. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help your family trust His timing and to be patient while waiting for His plans to unfold. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to express their feelings about waiting. Validate their emotions and remind them that God is always with them, even in the waiting. Family Devotion 4: The Joy of Giving Theme: Generosity Activity/Time: During a family game night or while playing together. Scripture: Luke 6:38 - "Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap." Devotion: Introduction: Talk about how the sermon mentioned giving and how it brings blessings. Ask the kids if they have ever given something to someone and how it made them feel. Discussion: Explain that God loves a cheerful giver and that when we give, we are showing God's love to others. Activity: Play a game where each person has to give something to another player, like a compliment or a small token. Discuss how it feels to give and receive. Prayer: Thank God for the ability to give and ask Him to help your family be generous with your time, talents, and treasures. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to think of giving as more than just money. Highlight the importance of giving time, love, and kindness. Family Devotion 5: God's Presence in Our Lives Theme: God's Presence Activity/Time: During a walk or while spending time outdoors. Scripture: Psalm 46:1 - "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble." Devotion: Introduction: Talk about how the sermon emphasized God's presence with us. Ask the kids if they can think of a time when they felt God was with them. Discussion: Explain that God is always with us, no matter where we are or what we're doing. We can talk to Him anytime, and He listens. Activity: As you walk or spend time outside, have each family member share one thing they are thankful for and one thing they want to ask God for help with. Prayer: Pray together, thanking God for His constant presence and asking Him to help your family feel His love and guidance every day. Parenting Tip: Use this time to teach your children about the importance of gratitude and prayer. Encourage them to be open and honest with God, just like they would with a friend. Family Devotion 1: Preparing Our Hearts for Worship Theme: Preparing our hearts for worship Activity/Time: During breakfast or dinner Scripture: Ecclesiastes 5:1 - "Walk prudently when you go to the house of God." Devotion: Introduction: Begin by asking, "What do you think it means to prepare for something important?" Discuss how we prepare for school, sports, or a special event. Discussion: Explain that just like we prepare for these activities, we should also prepare our hearts when we go to church to worship God. Share how Solomon teaches us to think about God and focus on Him as we go to church. Activity: As a family, take turns sharing one thing you are thankful for and one thing you want to pray about before going to church. This helps prepare your hearts to meet with God. Prayer: Close with a simple prayer, asking God to help you focus on Him and prepare your hearts for worship. Parenting Tip: Encourage your kids to think of church as a special time with God and to look forward to it with excitement. Family Devotion 2: Listening to God Theme: Listening to God Activity/Time: During a car ride Scripture: James 1:19 - "Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to wrath." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "Why is it important to listen carefully?" Discuss how listening helps us learn and understand better. Discussion: Explain that when we go to church, we should be ready to listen to God. Solomon and James both remind us to be quick to listen and slow to speak. Activity: Play a simple listening game. One person says a sentence, and the others have to repeat it exactly. Talk about how listening carefully helps us understand what God wants to say to us. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help you be good listeners, especially when He is speaking to you. Parenting Tip: Encourage your kids to practice listening at home by taking turns sharing their thoughts and listening to each other. Family Devotion 3: Being Careful with Our Words Theme: Being careful with our words Activity/Time: During a family walk or playtime Scripture: Matthew 5:37 - "Let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'" Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "Why do you think our words are important?" Discuss how words can help or hurt others. Discussion: Explain that Jesus and Solomon teach us to be careful with our words, especially when we make promises. It's important to mean what we say. Activity: Play a game where each person says something kind or encouraging to another family member. Talk about how our words can build each other up. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help you use your words wisely and to keep your promises. Parenting Tip: Model careful speech by being mindful of your own words and encouraging your kids to think before they speak. Family Devotion 4: Trusting God's Justice Theme: Trusting God's justice Activity/Time: During bedtime Scripture: Mark 4:22 - "For everything that is hidden will eventually be brought into the open." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "Have you ever seen something unfair happen?" Discuss how it feels when things aren't fair. Discussion: Explain that sometimes things seem unfair, but God sees everything and will make things right in His time. Solomon reminds us that God is in control. Activity: Share a story from the Bible where God showed His justice (e.g., Joseph's story). Discuss how God worked things out for good. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help you trust Him even when things seem unfair. Parenting Tip: Reassure your kids that God is always watching over them and will take care of them, even when life seems unfair. Family Devotion 5: Finding Contentment Theme: Finding contentment Activity/Time: During a family meal Scripture: Hebrews 13:5 - "Be content with what you have." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What does it mean to be content?" Discuss how being content means being happy with what we have. Discussion: Explain that Solomon and the writer of Hebrews teach us to be content with what God has given us. It's a gift to enjoy what we have. Activity: Go around the table and share one thing you are thankful for. Talk about how being thankful helps us be content. Prayer: Pray together, thanking God for His blessings and asking Him to help you be content. Parenting Tip: Encourage gratitude by regularly sharing things you are thankful for as a family. This helps cultivate a heart of contentment in your children. Family Devotion 1: The Value of Contentment Theme: Contentment and GratitudeSuggested Time: Dinner time Activity: Discussion Starter: Begin by asking each family member to share one thing they are thankful for today. Encourage everyone to think of something specific, no matter how small. Bible Verse: Read Philippians 4:11-13 together. Discuss how Paul learned to be content in every situation. Interactive Activity: Have each child draw a picture of something they are thankful for. Share and discuss why these things are important to them. Prayer: Close with a prayer thanking God for His blessings and asking for a heart of contentment. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to express gratitude daily. This can be a simple practice before bed or during meals. Family Devotion 2: The Importance of Wisdom Theme: Seeking WisdomSuggested Time: During a car ride Activity: Discussion Starter: Ask your children what they think wisdom means and why it might be important. Bible Verse: Read Proverbs 3:13-18. Discuss how wisdom is more valuable than silver or gold. Interactive Activity: Play a game where each person shares a wise choice they made recently or a wise decision they plan to make. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help each family member grow in wisdom. Parenting Tip: Use everyday situations to point out wise choices and discuss the outcomes of those choices. Family Devotion 3: The Reality of Sin and Redemption Theme: Understanding Sin and RedemptionSuggested Time: Bedtime Activity: Discussion Starter: Talk about a time when someone made a mistake and how they felt afterward. Bible Verse: Read Romans 3:23-24. Discuss how everyone makes mistakes, but God offers forgiveness through Jesus. Interactive Activity: Have each child think of one thing they want to ask God for forgiveness for and share if they feel comfortable. Prayer: Lead a prayer of confession and thank God for His forgiveness and love. Parenting Tip: Reinforce the concept of grace and forgiveness, emphasizing that everyone makes mistakes but can find redemption in Christ. Family Devotion 4: The Joy of Serving God Theme: Serving God with JoySuggested Time: While doing chores Activity: Discussion Starter: Ask your children how they feel when they help someone else. Bible Verse: Read Colossians 3:23-24. Discuss how we can serve God in everything we do, even in small tasks. Interactive Activity: Turn chores into a game or challenge, focusing on doing them joyfully as a service to God. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help each family member serve Him with joy in all they do. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to see everyday tasks as opportunities to serve God and others. Family Devotion 5: The Promise of Eternal Rewards Theme: Eternal RewardsSuggested Time: After school or during a snack time Activity: Discussion Starter: Ask your children what they think heaven will be like. Bible Verse: Read 2 Timothy 4:7-8. Discuss the idea of crowns or rewards in heaven for those who follow Jesus. Interactive Activity: Have each child draw or describe what they think their "crown" in heaven might look like and why. Prayer: Pray together, thanking God for the promise of eternal life and rewards in heaven. Parenting Tip: Use this devotion to encourage your children to think about the long-term impact of their faith and actions. Family Devotion 1: The Value of Wisdom Theme: Wisdom is better than riches. Activity/Time: Dinner time discussion. Scripture: Proverbs 3:13-14 - "Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding, for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold." Devotion: Introduction: Begin by asking, "What is something you think is really valuable?" Let each child share their thoughts. Discussion: Explain that the Bible tells us wisdom is more valuable than money or treasures. Wisdom helps us make good choices and live a life that pleases God. Interactive Question: Ask, "Can you think of a wise choice you made recently? How did it help you?" Prayer: Pray together, asking God to give each family member wisdom in their daily lives. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to share their thoughts freely. Affirm their ideas and guide them gently towards understanding the importance of wisdom. Family Devotion 2: Patience and Trust in God Theme: Patience is better than pride. Activity/Time: During a car ride or while waiting for something (e.g., dinner to cook). Scripture: Psalm 27:14 - "Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "Have you ever had to wait for something you really wanted? How did it feel?" Discussion: Explain that being patient means trusting God’s timing. Sometimes we want things right away, but God knows the best time for everything. Interactive Question: Share a time when you had to wait for something and how it turned out. Ask your children to share their experiences. Prayer: Pray for patience and trust in God’s perfect timing. Parenting Tip: Use this time to model patience. Show your children that waiting can be a time to trust God and grow in faith. Family Devotion 3: The Power of Words Theme: Words can build up or tear down. Activity/Time: While doing chores together. Scripture: Proverbs 18:21 - "The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What are some nice things someone has said to you? How did it make you feel?" Discussion: Explain that our words have power. They can make someone feel good or hurt them. God wants us to use our words to encourage and build others up. Interactive Question: Challenge each child to say something kind to another family member. Prayer: Pray for God to help you use your words wisely and kindly. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to practice using kind words throughout the day. Praise them when they do. Family Devotion 4: Contentment in God’s Plan Theme: Trusting God’s plan for our lives. Activity/Time: Bedtime reflection. Scripture: Jeremiah 29:11 - "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What do you want to be when you grow up? Do you think God has a plan for you?" Discussion: Explain that God has a special plan for each of us. Sometimes we might not understand it, but we can trust that it’s good. Interactive Question: Share a story of a time when you trusted God’s plan and how it worked out. Encourage your children to think about how they can trust God. Prayer: Pray for trust in God’s plan and contentment in His timing. Parenting Tip: Reassure your children that God’s plan is always for their good, even when it’s hard to see. Family Devotion 5: Avoiding Foolishness Theme: Choosing wisdom over foolishness. Activity/Time: During a family walk or outdoor play. Scripture: Proverbs 14:16 - "The wise fear the Lord and shun evil, but a fool is hotheaded and yet feels secure." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What do you think it means to be wise? What about being foolish?" Discussion: Explain that wisdom means making choices that honor God, while foolishness is doing things that can hurt us or others. Interactive Question: Ask your children to think of a wise choice they can make this week. Prayer: Pray for wisdom to make good choices and avoid foolishness. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to think about the consequences of their actions and guide them in making wise decisions. Family Devotion 1: The Beginning of Wisdom Theme: The Fear of the Lord is the Beginning of WisdomScripture: Proverbs 9:10Activity Time: Dinner Time Devotion: Read the Scripture: Begin by reading Proverbs 9:10 together: "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding." Discussion: Ask the kids what they think "the fear of the Lord" means. Explain that it’s not about being scared of God, but about having respect and awe for Him, like how we respect and listen to our parents. Activity: Go around the table and have each family member share one thing they respect or admire about God. It could be His love, His creation, or how He listens to our prayers. Prayer: Close with a prayer asking God to help each family member grow in wisdom and to always have a respectful and loving relationship with Him. Parenting Tip: Encourage your kids to ask questions and express their thoughts. This helps them engage more deeply with the concept of wisdom and respect for God. Family Devotion 2: Choosing Friends Wisely Theme: The Influence of RelationshipsScripture: Proverbs 13:20Activity Time: After School Snack Time Devotion: Read the Scripture: Proverbs 13:20: "Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm." Discussion: Talk about how Solomon was influenced by the wrong people. Ask your kids if they can think of a time when a friend influenced them to do something good or bad. Activity: Have each child draw a picture of a wise friend or someone they admire. Discuss what makes that person wise and how they can be a good influence. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help your children choose friends who will encourage them to make wise choices. Parenting Tip: Use this time to affirm the positive friendships your children have and gently guide them in understanding the impact of negative influences. Family Devotion 3: True Happiness Theme: Happiness through WisdomScripture: Proverbs 3:13Activity Time: Bedtime Devotion: Read the Scripture: Proverbs 3:13: "Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding." Discussion: Ask your kids what makes them happy. Explain that true happiness comes from knowing God and making wise choices. Activity: Have a "thankful moment" where each child shares one thing they are thankful for that day. Connect it to how wisdom helps us appreciate the good things God gives us. Prayer: Thank God for the blessings of the day and ask for wisdom to see and appreciate His gifts. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to find joy in simple, everyday blessings, reinforcing the idea that happiness is found in God’s wisdom. Family Devotion 4: Obeying Authority Theme: Respecting AuthorityScripture: Romans 13:1Activity Time: During Chores Devotion: Read the Scripture: Romans 13:1: "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established." Discussion: Talk about why it’s important to obey rules and respect authority, like parents, teachers, and leaders. Activity: While doing chores, discuss how following rules helps keep things in order, just like chores help keep the house clean. Prayer: Pray for the authorities in your life, asking God to give them wisdom and for your family to have a respectful attitude. Parenting Tip: Use this time to model respect for authority by speaking positively about leaders and rules, even when it’s challenging. Family Devotion 5: Enjoying Life Theme: Finding Joy in Everyday LifeScripture: Ecclesiastes 8:15Activity Time: Family Game Night Devotion: Read the Scripture: Ecclesiastes 8:15: "So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad." Discussion: Talk about how God wants us to enjoy the life He has given us, even when things are tough. Activity: Play a favorite family game together. As you play, discuss how laughter and fun are gifts from God. Prayer: Thank God for the joy and fun you have as a family and ask Him to help you find joy in all circumstances. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to see joy as a gift from God and to find it in everyday moments, reinforcing a positive and grateful attitude. Family Devotion 1: The Beginning of Wisdom Theme: The Fear of the Lord is the Beginning of WisdomScripture: Proverbs 9:10Activity Time: Dinner Time Devotion: Read the Scripture: Begin by reading Proverbs 9:10 together: "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding." Discussion: Ask the kids what they think "the fear of the Lord" means. Explain that it’s not about being scared of God, but about having respect and awe for Him, like how we respect and listen to our parents. Activity: Go around the table and have each family member share one thing they respect or admire about God. It could be His love, His creation, or how He listens to our prayers. Prayer: Close with a prayer asking God to help each family member grow in wisdom and to always have a respectful and loving relationship with Him. Parenting Tip: Encourage your kids to ask questions and express their thoughts. This helps them engage more deeply with the concept of wisdom and respect for God. Family Devotion 2: Choosing Friends Wisely Theme: The Influence of RelationshipsScripture: Proverbs 13:20Activity Time: After School Snack Time Devotion: Read the Scripture: Proverbs 13:20: "Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm." Discussion: Talk about how Solomon was influenced by the wrong people. Ask your kids if they can think of a time when a friend influenced them to do something good or bad. Activity: Have each child draw a picture of a wise friend or someone they admire. Discuss what makes that person wise and how they can be a good influence. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help your children choose friends who will encourage them to make wise choices. Parenting Tip: Use this time to affirm the positive friendships your children have and gently guide them in understanding the impact of negative influences. Family Devotion 3: True Happiness Theme: Happiness through WisdomScripture: Proverbs 3:13Activity Time: Bedtime Devotion: Read the Scripture: Proverbs 3:13: "Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding." Discussion: Ask your kids what makes them happy. Explain that true happiness comes from knowing God and making wise choices. Activity: Have a "thankful moment" where each child shares one thing they are thankful for that day. Connect it to how wisdom helps us appreciate the good things God gives us. Prayer: Thank God for the blessings of the day and ask for wisdom to see and appreciate His gifts. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to find joy in simple, everyday blessings, reinforcing the idea that happiness is found in God’s wisdom. Family Devotion 4: Obeying Authority Theme: Respecting AuthorityScripture: Romans 13:1Activity Time: During Chores Devotion: Read the Scripture: Romans 13:1: "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established." Discussion: Talk about why it’s important to obey rules and respect authority, like parents, teachers, and leaders. Activity: While doing chores, discuss how following rules helps keep things in order, just like chores help keep the house clean. Prayer: Pray for the authorities in your life, asking God to give them wisdom and for your family to have a respectful attitude. Parenting Tip: Use this time to model respect for authority by speaking positively about leaders and rules, even when it’s challenging. Family Devotion 5: Enjoying Life Theme: Finding Joy in Everyday LifeScripture: Ecclesiastes 8:15Activity Time: Family Game Night Devotion: Read the Scripture: Ecclesiastes 8:15: "So I commend the enjoyment of life, because there is nothing better for a person under the sun than to eat and drink and be glad." Discussion: Talk about how God wants us to enjoy the life He has given us, even when things are tough. Activity: Play a favorite family game together. As you play, discuss how laughter and fun are gifts from God. Prayer: Thank God for the joy and fun you have as a family and ask Him to help you find joy in all circumstances. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to see joy as a gift from God and to find it in everyday moments, reinforcing a positive and grateful attitude. Family Devotion 1: Guarding Our Reputation Theme: The importance of maintaining a good reputation. Activity/Time: Dinner time discussion. Scripture: Proverbs 22:1 - "A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold." Devotion: Introduction: Begin by asking, "What do you think it means to have a good reputation?" Allow the kids to share their thoughts. Discussion: Explain that just like a good name is valuable, our actions and words can affect how others see us. Share the example from the sermon about how a little folly can damage a good reputation, just like dead flies can ruin perfume. Activity: Have each family member share one thing they can do to maintain a good reputation, such as being honest or kind. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help each family member live in a way that honors Him and maintains a good reputation. Parenting Tip: Encourage your kids by affirming the good qualities you see in them and how they contribute to their good reputation. Family Devotion 2: Wisdom vs. Foolishness Theme: The value of wisdom over foolishness. Activity/Time: During a car ride. Scripture: James 1:5 - "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What do you think is the difference between being wise and being foolish?" Discussion: Share how the sermon talked about wisdom leading to strength and victory, while foolishness leads to weakness and defeat. Discuss examples of wise and foolish choices. Activity: Play a quick game where you describe a scenario, and the kids decide if it's a wise or foolish choice. For example, "Is it wise or foolish to do your homework before playing video games?" Prayer: Pray for wisdom in daily decisions and thank God for His guidance. Parenting Tip: Use everyday situations to point out wise choices and encourage your kids to seek wisdom from God. Family Devotion 3: Respecting Boundaries Theme: Honoring boundaries and respecting others. Activity/Time: While cleaning up toys or doing chores. Scripture: Exodus 20:17 - "You shall not covet your neighbor's house." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What are boundaries, and why are they important?" Discussion: Explain how boundaries protect us and others. Use the sermon’s example of not crossing into others' property or belongings. Activity: As you clean, talk about how respecting boundaries is like keeping things in their right place. Discuss how respecting others' things and feelings is important. Prayer: Pray for respect and understanding of boundaries in relationships. Parenting Tip: Reinforce the importance of boundaries by setting clear ones at home and explaining their purpose. Family Devotion 4: The Power of Words Theme: Using words wisely. Activity/Time: Bedtime reflection. Scripture: Proverbs 18:21 - "The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "How can our words help or hurt others?" Discussion: Share how the sermon highlighted the power of words and how they can build up or tear down. Activity: Have each child share a kind word or compliment about another family member. Prayer: Pray for God to help you use words that encourage and build others up. Parenting Tip: Model positive speech and gently correct negative talk, explaining its impact. Family Devotion 5: Trusting God’s Timing Theme: Trusting God for promotion and justice. Activity/Time: During a family walk. Scripture: Psalm 75:6-7 - "No one from the east or the west or from the desert can exalt themselves. It is God who judges: He brings one down, he exalts another." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "Have you ever felt like you were treated unfairly?" Discussion: Explain how the sermon taught that God sees everything and will promote us in His timing, just like He did with Joseph. Activity: As you walk, talk about times when you had to wait for something good to happen and how it felt when it finally did. Prayer: Pray for patience and trust in God’s perfect timing. Parenting Tip: Share personal stories of God’s faithfulness in your life to encourage your children’s faith. Family Devotion 1: Casting Your Bread Theme: Generosity and GivingScripture: Ecclesiastes 11:1 - "Cast your bread upon the waters, for you will find it after many days." Activity: During Dinner Time Discussion Starter: Ask your children what they think it means to "cast your bread upon the waters." Explain that it means to give generously and trust that God will bless that giving in His time. Interactive Activity: Have each family member share one way they can be generous this week, whether it's sharing a toy, helping a friend, or praying for someone. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help you be generous and to trust Him with the results. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children by sharing a personal story of a time when you gave and saw God bless it later. Family Devotion 2: The Power of Patience Theme: Patience in WaitingScripture: Galatians 6:9 - "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Activity: During a Car Ride Discussion Starter: Talk about a time when you had to wait for something good. How did it feel? Was it worth the wait? Interactive Activity: Play a game where each person shares something they are waiting for and how they can be patient while waiting. Prayer: Pray for patience and trust in God's timing. Parenting Tip: Use this time to model patience by being calm and encouraging, even if the car ride is hectic. Family Devotion 3: The Importance of Giving Theme: Giving Beyond MoneyScripture: Ecclesiastes 11:2 - "Give a serving to seven, and also to eight, for you do not know what evil will be on the earth." Activity: While Cleaning the House Discussion Starter: Discuss how giving isn't just about money. What are other ways we can give to others? Interactive Activity: As you clean, have each child think of one way they can give to someone in the family, like helping with chores or sharing a kind word. Prayer: Pray for a heart that is willing to give in all areas of life. Parenting Tip: Praise your children for their ideas and encourage them to follow through with their acts of giving. Family Devotion 4: Trusting God's Plan Theme: Trusting God with the UnknownScripture: Ecclesiastes 11:5 - "As you do not know what is the way of the wind... so you do not know the works of God who makes everything." Activity: Before Bedtime Discussion Starter: Talk about how sometimes we don't understand everything God is doing, but we can trust Him. Interactive Activity: Have each child draw a picture of something they are trusting God with, even if they don't understand it. Prayer: Pray for trust in God's plan, even when it's hard to see. Parenting Tip: Reassure your children that it's okay not to have all the answers and that trusting God is a lifelong journey. Family Devotion 5: Living for God Theme: Living a Life that Honors GodScripture: 2 Timothy 2:22 - "Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace." Activity: During Breakfast Discussion Starter: Discuss what it means to live a life that honors God. What are some choices we can make to do this? Interactive Activity: Have each child share one thing they can do today to honor God, like being kind or telling the truth. Prayer: Pray for strength to make choices that honor God. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children by highlighting their positive choices and reminding them of God's love and grace. Family Devotion 1: Remembering God in Our Youth Theme: Remembering and honoring God while we are young. Activity/Time: During dinner time. Scripture: Ecclesiastes 12:1 - "Remember now your Creator in the days of your youth." Devotion: Introduction: Begin by asking, "What are some things you remember from when you were younger?" Allow each child to share a memory. Discussion: Explain that just like we remember fun times, God wants us to remember Him, especially when we are young. Ask, "Why do you think it's important to remember God now?" Activity: Have each child draw a picture of something they are thankful for that God has given them. Share these drawings with the family. Prayer: Close with a prayer thanking God for being with us in our youth and asking Him to help us remember Him every day. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to think of ways they can remember God throughout their day, like saying a quick prayer or thanking Him for something good that happens. Family Devotion 2: Loving God with All Our Strength Theme: Loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. Activity/Time: During a family walk or outdoor playtime. Scripture: Mark 12:30 - "And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength." Devotion: Introduction: While walking or playing, ask, "What are some things you love to do with all your strength?" Discussion: Explain that God wants us to love Him with everything we have, just like we put all our energy into playing or running. Activity: Challenge each child to think of one way they can show love to God with their actions today. Share these ideas with each other. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help us love Him with all our strength and to show His love to others. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to find small ways to show love to God and others, like helping a sibling or saying a kind word. Family Devotion 3: The Importance of Wisdom Theme: Seeking wisdom and understanding. Activity/Time: During breakfast or morning routine. Scripture: Proverbs 4:7 - "Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What is something new you learned recently?" Allow each child to share. Discussion: Explain that God wants us to seek wisdom and understanding, just like we learn new things every day. Activity: Have each child think of one question they have about God or the Bible. Write these down and plan to explore them together during the week. Prayer: Pray for wisdom and understanding, asking God to help us learn more about Him. Parenting Tip: Encourage curiosity and exploration of God's Word by finding answers to their questions together as a family. Family Devotion 4: Trusting God in All Seasons Theme: Trusting God through all stages of life. Activity/Time: During bedtime routine. Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 - "To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What is your favorite season and why?" Discuss the different seasons of the year. Discussion: Explain that just like there are different seasons in the year, there are different times in our lives. God is with us in every season. Activity: Have each child share one thing they are trusting God for right now. Encourage them to write it down or draw a picture of it. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to help us trust Him in every season of our lives. Parenting Tip: Remind your children that God is always with them, no matter what they are going through, and encourage them to talk to Him about their worries. Family Devotion 5: Living with Hope Theme: Living with hope in Jesus. Activity/Time: During a car ride or while doing chores together. Scripture: Romans 15:13 - "Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Devotion: Introduction: Ask, "What is something you hope for?" Allow each child to share their hopes. Discussion: Explain that as Christians, we have a special hope because of Jesus. He gives us joy and peace. Activity: Have each child think of one way they can share hope with someone else this week. Discuss how they can do this. Prayer: Pray together, asking God to fill your family with hope and to help you share it with others. Parenting Tip: Encourage your children to look for opportunities to share hope and kindness with others, reminding them of the hope we have in Jesus.